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Telling the Truth is NOT Slander

The Truth, It is not Slander in 2021 nor in other years…

After writing Returning the Favour I was told, via email, by the person whose dick and information I mentioned at Returning the Favour, that I was not telling the truth. That I was slandering him.

He forgot though that I am not lying, that I only tell the truth to protect others being treated by him as I was by his behaviour. I didn’t lie, I didn’t tell anything that was not the truth.

Smaad is het moedwillig zwartmaken van een ander en een zwaarder delict dan belediging. Dit zwartmaken kan geschieden via een geschrift (smaadschrift), of mondeling maar bijvoorbeeld ook op Facebook.

Voor strafbaarheid van smaad is het vereist dat u anders dan uit noodzakelijke verdediging of uit goede trouw, iemand beschuldigt van iets, waarbij het niet eenvoudig vast te stellen is of deze feiten onwaar zijn. Zelfs wanneer u de waarheid aan het licht stelt, kan u strafbaar zijn.

Op smaad staat en maximale gevangenisstraf van zes maanden of een geldboete van de derde categorie. Pleegt u smaad via een geschrift (via teksten of afbeeldingen), dan is de maximale straf één jaar cel of een boete van de derde categorie.

So please, ‘mister” Marchel V., go on and file a complaint at the police. But I bet this is a lie also. As everything you told me has been proven a lie. You are too scared that people learn the truth about you.

Therefore, you will never ever file a complaint against me. I DO speak the truth. And that is dangerous for people not even know what the word means. And this includes you,

We all know the truth is only the truth when you can prove it. Although this can be very frustrating. And you know what? Therefore, I have saved all our chats, all the voice messages I did send. Well, not exactly for that reason.

Hence, because I like to re-read and listen again everything I wrote and said. And now, now it is evidence. Evidence about what has happened. What REALLY happened. Even though he will deny it, this is how it happened. This is the TRUTH!

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Do you need more proof? I am only a question away…


Flirting from his side

Flirting with me became more and more over time. In the beginning, I didn’t notice it. Better, I did notice it but ignored it.
2017-July/August 2020

Contact Intensified, His Choice

Flirting from his side intensified. And he told me he never could forget me. But that time wasn’t right in 2017/2018.
I told him that I didn’t want to be the extra woman, and he told me I would never be. I still was very sceptical.
July/August 2020

Soulmate and more lies

He was wooing me and our contact intensified. Deep conversations and he told me he is in love with me. My feelings for him grew also. He told me that he never felt this before. That I am his soulmate and that he wants to grow old with me. That this is no fling, but deep true love.
And stupid me… I fell for it.
And then… He started to ignore me completely. Completely. Without any warning. I became very angry. Being ignored is the worst thing you can do to anyone you are in a relationship with.
August/September/October 2020

No Contact At All

A few months without contact.
November/December 2020

Back in Contact

Stupid me did send a message to wish him the best for 2021.
Immediately, our contact intensified. As if nothing had happened. He told me he still loved me deeply and never wants to be without me anymore.
The contact was good.
January 2021

Again I am being Ignored

And there it started again, the ignoring, 100% from his side. He told me excuses like “my telephone didn’t work”, “I don’t feel well”. Etc. etc. Lies, I now think. Not once he ever apologized.
Again we had some off contact time.
February 2021

And There he was Again…

One day, I received a message that he was missing me and that he learned it is not good for a relationship to ignore the one you love. He asked me if we can call every day. Which surprised me. I asked him if he was sure. And he promised me he was. The first time we made an appointment, he didn’t call me. Even though he promised to do it a few hours before. I was very angry. But we agreed I would call him.
That day, he requested another time. No problem. Of course, he didn’t pick up the phone.
A few days later, he contacted me again. The contact was good for a few days. After a few days, I didn’t hear anything at all from him. Only the message that he didn’t feel well. And that was the end of all the contact.
He never ever replied anymore. Nothing at all!
March/April 2021

No Contact At All

I blocked him on all Social Media. And I deleted his telephone number from my cell phone.
He treated me like S*** and I called it love.
May 2021

Life Goes On

Although I am still hurt enormous, I have to go on. And protect other women from being hurt by this evil creature.
June 2021 and beyond
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