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Returning the Favour

There are times in life that you need to remind people who you are. You have to just put on your tiara or crown to remind them who they are dealing with. In my case a hat… And it time I show them. Him!
No revenge but returning the favour!

I have allowed him to treat me like a piece of s***. Swallowed his lies and promises over and over again because I SO wanted to believe his words. But words without actions are only empty words. And lies!

AND HERE IT ENDS!

He caused me enough pain with his unkept promises. I am not going to believe him again. Someone who lies about an email address will lie about anything. When I asked why his year of birth on his e-mail address was different from his real one he answered that the email address he wanted wasn’t available anymore.

Stupid me, I should have checked this immediately and not have waited months before doing that. Because guess what?! That email address was available. Yet not anymore now. Now it is mine!

Someone lying about such a small thing for sure will lie about bigger and big things. In other words “mister” Marchel Velthuis aka Marc Fieldhouse you are a liar. And you always will be.
Yet, not only did I allow him to treat me like sh**. but I was also (I still am) very good at finding excuses for his awful behaviour.

In fact I need to start returning the Favour.

For example by treating him how he treated me the last 9-10 months. O yes, it was not weeks but months that I consequently allowed him to treat me like this. But now I am going to return the favour.
I always have tried to be a good person. As well in the past as in the present. But it brought me nothing. Moreover, now I think that it brought me more pain. Difficulties over and over again. Furthermore, waiting for Karma? She is too busy with other things. Nope. Let us start returning the favour!

They say they’re going to call you at a certain day and time, and never do

Wetiko – Exploring the Alarming Rise of Narcissism

Returning the Favour

A good friend of mine said to me when I spoke (again) about the hurt I have difficulties with overcoming:

“However, I do understand the pain, what I do not understand is that you are stressing yourself out. What is the value of that? Except making yourself nuts while he, having a horrible personality (he said “teringlijer“), is sleeping peacefully. But you can’t keep giving them this shit what you’re doing. He laughs at it and continues. For him, it is next…”

Thank you Raf!

The below video will show you the ritual burning of “mister” Marchel Velthuis aka Marc Fieldhouse his photo. The photo which he made special for me. At least that is what he told me. He probably gave it to his other playmates also.

In the video, I accidentally tell there that he lives in Sofia. But it still might be in Varna, in the East of Bulgaria.

Update: July, 7th, 2021. I received an email that I have to stop slandering him. And that he has filed a complaint at the police. If I believed him, which I don’t, I wouldn’t worry.

Telling the truth, what I’ve done is not slander. And I can prove all I have said. And believe me, it is 1000x worse, when not 10,000!

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Another update. After months, he never answered me (in the middle of our relationship, he started to ignore me completely) he now wrote another email. Two days in a row, that is a World Record! Threatening me again that he already filed a complaint. Let them come, please…

Let them come. But they won’t. Why not? Because it seemed he never spoke the truth, not once. So, why now?

TIMELINE

Flirting from his side

Flirting with me became more and more over time. In the beginning, I didn’t notice it. Better, I did notice it but ignored it.
2017-July/August 2020


Contact Intensified, His Choice

Flirting from his side intensified. And he told me he never could forget me. But that time wasn’t right in 2017/2018.
I told him that I didn’t want to be the extra woman, and he told me I would never be. I still was very sceptical.
July/August 2020

Soulmate and more lies

He was wooing me and our contact intensified. Deep conversations and he told me he is in love with me. My feelings for him grew also. He told me that he never felt this before. That I am his soulmate and that he wants to grow old with me. That this is no fling, but deep true love.
And stupid me… I fell for it.
And then… He started to ignore me completely. Completely. Without any warning. I became very angry. Being ignored is the worst thing you can do to anyone you are in a relationship with.
Received the first nude photos. Which I obviously didn’t request. Later in 2021, I received more and more.
August/September/October 2020

No Contact At All

A few months without contact.
November/December 2020

Back in Contact

Stupid me did send a message to wish him the best for 2021.
Immediately, our contact intensified. As if nothing had happened. He told me he still loved me deeply and never wants to be without me anymore.
The contact was good.
January 2021


Again I am being Ignored

And there it started again, the ignoring, 100% from his side. He told me excuses like “my telephone didn’t work”, “I don’t feel well”. Etc. etc. Lies, I now think. Not once he ever apologized.
Again we had some off contact time.
February 2021

And There he was Again…

One day, I received a message that he was missing me and that he learned it is not good for a relationship to ignore the one you love. He asked me if we can call every day. Which surprised me. I asked him if he was sure. And he promised me he was. The first time we made an appointment, he didn’t call me. Even though he promised to do it a few hours before. I was very angry. But we agreed I would call him.
That day, he requested another time. No problem. Of course, he didn’t pick up the phone.
A few days later, he contacted me again. The contact was good for a few days. After a few days, I didn’t hear anything at all from him. Only the message that he didn’t feel well. And that was the end of all the contact.
He never ever replied anymore. Nothing at all!
March/April 2021

No Contact At All

I blocked him on all Social Media. And I deleted his telephone number from my cell phone.
He treated me like S*** and I called it love.
May 2021

Life Goes On

Although I am still hurt enormous, I have to go on. And protect other women from being hurt by this evil creature.
June 2021 and beyond

The above timeline is a short, yet still pretty long, timeline but doesn’t of course include everything that happened.

Helping Karma is NOT Revenge

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