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Helping Karma is NOT Revenge

It is Returning the Favour!

When did see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil, do any good? Keep silent when evil people did terrible things? Things that didn’t help the world?
It never did. On the contrary, it did awful things to the world and the people.
This was the case in the past, it does now in the present, and it will be the case in the future. And therefore, helping Karma is NOT revenge!

And the worst? Every time people of that period say “this never again”. To repeat the horrible things that happened only a few years later again. Over and over again. Never learning from them!

Protecting others is Not Revenge!

It was probably Einstein who has said, “The World will not be destroyed by those who are evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything about it”. And in my opinion, these people, the silent mass, are as bad as the so-called evil. Because they know, although, THEY KNOW but stay silent because it does not affect them. Therefore, helping Karma is not revenge!

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In real life, there are all kinds of things happening. Good and bad things. Sometimes caused by yourself. Other times these things are done by others to you. Most of the time by accident. Because people are different and don’t understand how their actions affect other people and can not understand how they react because of this. This is sad, but happens and talking about this, understanding and respecting the other, forgive and go on. This is life and this happens to everyone.

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Then, occasionally you meet (unlucky you) a person who willingly hurts you. Knowing that what he does is completely wrong. Turning everything around as if you are the person causing the issue (like a good manipulator or even a narcissist). How much you try to get to know the reason, you will never get an answer. And after leaving you destroyed this kind of people go on to the next one.

However, these are the kind of people that have to be stopped. Not because of your revenge on them.
NO! To protect others. Therefore, I have written several of my blog posts.

Returning the Favour

Let them come. But they won’t. Why not? Because it seemed he never spoke the truth, not once. So, why now?

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TIMELINE

Flirting from his side

Flirting with me became more and more over time. In the beginning, I didn’t notice it. Better, I did notice it but ignored it.
2017-July/August 2020


Contact Intensified, His Choice

Flirting from his side intensified. And he told me he never could forget me. But that time wasn’t right in 2017/2018.
I told him that I didn’t want to be the extra woman, and he told me I would never be. I still was very sceptical.
July/August 2020

Soulmate and more lies

He was wooing me and our contact intensified. Deep conversations and he told me he is in love with me. My feelings for him grew also. He told me that he never felt this before. That I am his soulmate and that he wants to grow old with me. That this is no fling, but deep true love.
And stupid me… I fell for it.
And then… He started to ignore me completely. Completely. Without any warning. I became very angry. Being ignored is the worst thing you can do to anyone you are in a relationship with.
August/September/October 2020

No Contact At All

A few months without contact.
November/December 2020

Back in Contact

Stupid me did send a message to wish him the best for 2021.
Immediately, our contact intensified. As if nothing had happened. He told me he still loved me deeply and never wants to be without me anymore.
The contact was good.
January 2021


Again I am being Ignored

And there it started again, the ignoring, 100% from his side. He told me excuses like “my telephone didn’t work”, “I don’t feel well”. Etc. etc. Lies, I now think. Not once he ever apologized.
Again we had some off contact time.
February 2021

And There he was Again…

One day, I received a message that he was missing me and that he learned it is not good for a relationship to ignore the one you love. He asked me if we can call every day. Which surprised me. I asked him if he was sure. And he promised me he was. The first time we made an appointment, he didn’t call me. Even though he promised to do it a few hours before. I was very angry. But we agreed I would call him.
That day, he requested another time. No problem. Of course, he didn’t pick up the phone.
A few days later, he contacted me again. The contact was good for a few days. After a few days, I didn’t hear anything at all from him. Only the message that he didn’t feel well. And that was the end of all the contact.
He never ever replied anymore. Nothing at all!
March/April 2021

No Contact At All

I blocked him on all Social Media. And I deleted his telephone number from my cell phone.
He treated me like S*** and I called it love.
May 2021

Life Goes On

Although I am still hurt enormous, I have to go on. And protect other women from being hurt by this evil creature.
June 2021 and beyond

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