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Cleansing Rituals, Moving On

The Cleansing Rituals to help me move on

Today it is time to let go. To let go of everything that blocks me. Yeah, everything! But mainly the memories and the person who gave me so much pain the last 11 months. I am doing RITUALS!

I do this by following several, complementary, rituals. Rituals to cleanse me and my surroundings. And protect me.

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A good friend of mine told me when I said (again) about the hurt I have difficulties with overcoming:

“However, I do understand the pain, what I do not understand is that you are stressing yourself out. What is the value of that? Except making yourself nuts while he, having a horrible personality (he said “teringlijer“), is sleeping peacefully.

But you can’t keep giving them this shit what you’re doing. He laughs at it and continues. For him, it is next…”

Thank you Raf!

First of all, I started, of course, by cleaning myself physically. Just a long hot shower. Then I played for a few hours Aura Cleansing Music. During this time I was collecting Crystals, Herbs and other items for the rituals.

I also collected the items that I want to burn. Photos, documents, herbs and other items I used in meditations about us etc.

Next to that, I grabbed my Palo Santo to cleanse myself. A ritual that I do now and then, and needs to be done before a ritual cleansing like I am going to do.

After finishing the Palo Santo cleansing I started with the following rituals:
7 Sacred Flames: Clearing Your Ex’s Energy From Your Life. It is a ritual from Tamara Green, LCSW.

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The 7 Sacred Flames ritual will be explained in full at her site. These are the short steps:

  • 1) Clear his energy.
  • 2) Breathe deeply and fill up your heart centre with fresh energy.
  • 3) Start tapping on your chest, to release the stuck energy in your heart.
  • 4) Call in the Flame of Cosmic Love.
  • 5) Breathe in this Flame of Cosmic Love energy, 3 times or more.
  • 6) Thank your ex for all he taught you.
  • 7) Celebrate your victory in standing pose. With your hands above your head in a victory position and smile big with your teeth showing.

I intended to do an Aura combing ritual after the 7 Sacred Flames: Clearing Your Ex’s Energy From Your Life, One of the rituals I never performed myself. It has been done a few years ago to me.

As I was preparing I decided, because that felt the correct thing to do, first to do the photos, herbals and documents burning ritual.

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After the burning ritual, I flushed the ashes down the toilet and I cleaned the kitchen and let fresh air in, into all the rooms of my apartment. What a smoke! My whole flat was filled with thick blue-grey smoke.

I cleansed, physically, the kitchen. And I burned many incense sticks to get rid of the horrible smell. This all before I went on with the other ritual. But first of all, I cleaned myself under the shower again, to get rid of the smokey smell.

Aura Combing Ritual

During the shower, I alternatively decided to do the Aura Combing Ritual during the time I was taking the shower. Because it felt how I should do the ritual.

Therefore, I took my time and as with everything, I only decided to stop showering when it felt right for me. Combing my Aura with totally clean hands. Flushing the parts of my Aura that didn’t fit me anymore, the dirty parts, into the sewer.

The next step, completely clean clothes. Fresh from the closet. After that, it first was time for some food. And second, my Crystals. In the meantime still burning incense. Meditating with several Crystals. Another of the Rituals. I always feel the energy of the Crystals when I touch them.

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And almost last, but still, not completely least I performed a few protection spells on myself.,

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The very last thing I did to finish my Rituals was saying this. Out Loud:

  • 1) I am grateful for the lessons learned, and I now end this relationship and let it go.
  • 2) One of the things I have learned is that when someone finds you important he makes time for you. No matter what.
  • 3) I now let go of all the bonds that still exist together with the pain this relationship cost me. I release it.
  • 4) Moving forward I only attract positive circumstances and real honest people who love me. Situations that are worthful and not harmful. Happy circumstances, health, balance, abundance, wealth, wisdom, luck and peace.
  • Abracadabra.

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